Saturday, April 28, 2007

Which is which?!?



Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you..
Or are you goin' back to the one you love?




The One You Love..
Frey Glenn

I know you need a friend, someone you can talk to
Who will understand what you're going through
When it comes to love, there's no easy answer
Only you can say what you're gonna do
I heard you on the phone, you took his number,
Said you were alone but you called him "Sue"
Isn't he the guy, the guy who left you cryin'?
Isn't he the one who made you blue?
When you remember those nights in his arms,
You know you gotta make up your mind
Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you
Or are you goin' back to the one you love?
Someone's gonna cry when they know they've lost you
Someone's gonna thank the stars above
What you gonna say when he comes over?
There's no easy way to see this through
All the broken dreams, all the disappointments
Oh girl, what you gonna do? Your heart keeps sayin',
"It's just not fair" But still you gotta make up your mind

**wushu..
tough decision in our life... but which is which?! which you will go?? the one you love or the one who has love for you??

grrrhh.. I know love should be 2-way.. dut damn shit.. too much ideal.. initially, only one is attracted.. that's why there is a "courting" process.. otherwise, no need to make 'ligaw' right?! if you both love each other at first sight?! possible might it seems but duh!?! 0.001% of probability in Philippines na lng not in the world.. hehehe :D im not sure but though i don't believe na just at first sight you already know that you're meant for each other forever.. huh??!! gus2 ko ata mgtumbling at gumulong sa chocolate hills.. (ay di pa pla ako nakakaputa sa chocolate hills!?! sa Mt. Yasur na lang.. hahah ;p)..

seriously, i need comment on this.. any comments will be posted in my blog.. i'll be editing this entry after comments were made..

no 'pasaway' please.. only 2 options.. go with the one you love or go with the one who has love for you?!

let me start... I'd prefer the first.. go with the one i love.. coz albeit she dont love me back, but still i can express myself and somehow even 1-way, I feel happy expressing my feelings.. and baka nga nman makuha sa tyagaan.. hehehe ;p

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Tsk! Tsk! Matindi na 'yang problema mo ha! heheh!

Ako since dati I've chosen the one I love kahit 1-way lang... Cguro this time I'll choose the one who loves me... It might sound selfish but then again, for someone like me, I believe I ought to choose someone who would care for me. (Hindi 'yung mas madalas pang ako 'yung nag-aalaga! ;)) Love is a decision. At two-way ang decision na 'yon! If you decided to love someone despite all the negative things happening around you or between the two of you, the other must also make a decision. And if he/she decided not to love you in return, then so be it. You have to make a choice, then, if you'll stay expressing your undying love for that person while hurting through your everyday existence. Or you can just express that burning love inside you to other people around you (e.g. friends, family, strangers who need comfort). At least it won't go to waste! You won't have that feeling at every end of the day that although you were happy you've expressed your love for him/her, that you've made him/her smile, YOU STILL FEEL EMPTY! Let's admit it! You feel empty 'coz the other person cannot reciprocate that love! (Tulad ngayon! You're soliciting for advice 'coz you're feeling that "emptiness"! O sige "sadness" lang para magaan!;p)Unrequited love is damaging! And we must free ourselves from damaging emotions like that. We must always strive to be happy! Truly happy! ('Yung tipong wala tayong wini-wish o sinasabi na masama to other people just because we are hurt. 'Yung tipong umaabot na sa point na minamaliit na natin 'yung taong pinili nung pinili nating mahalin! Pamilyar ba? heheh!)

At least if you'll share that love within you to other people (not just to one single person), you'll not just make one single person smile every now and then. You can make a LOT of people feel special! And that I believe is such a great feeling! And who knows, you might meet the one who could reciprocate your love along the road!

Opinion lang naman di ba? Alam ko hard-headed ka din tulad ko! Ito ang mga sinasabi ko pero minsan slave din ako ng emotions ko! matagal bago matauhan! heheh! ;D

Burahin mo na lang if ever nde mo magustuhan 'yung comment ko... ;)

Anonymous said...

i'd rather stay with the one who loves me. i don't know, maybe it so happen that i am a type of person who tends to fall in love easily to someone i know who truly loves me or has that very special feeling for me. there is nothing wrong staying with the one you love, but i personally can't find happiness in a situation with such one sided affair, and my thought about it is it's a waste of time.

tyagaan? i don't go for it. i hate the idea of a long term process manipulating feelings just to convince one to love you. and for me, it is a selfish intention having such desire to stay with the one having questionable feelings on you.

you have said that you'd rather go with the one you love. ang alam kong kalakaran lang naman dyan eh basta wala lang dapat masyadong pilitan. if you think or feel na di ka naman talaga mahal o may minamahal na iba, set her free na sana. masarap magmahal pero matinding sakit naman kung malaman mo ang katotohanan na di ka man lang pala nagawang mahalin ng tunay.

:-)

poison ivy said...

"wag magtaka kung ako ay di na naghihintay... sa anumang kapalit ng inalay kong pag-ibig... at kung hindi man dumating satin ang panahon... na ako ay mahalin mo rin... asahan mong di ako magdaramdam kahit ako ay nasasaktan... wag mo lang ipagkait.. na ikaw ay aking... mahalin..."

*bow*